So when I wrote the post below I had absolutely no clue how hard the fashion challenge was going to be. I originally thought it would be hard because I would have to wear things I was not use to wearing. Ummmm, no, not even close. By day 3, I had so much anxiety posting photos of myself that I dreaded the moment when I would push post. I would talk to friends and tell them I wanted to quit. I couldn't put myself out there anymore. My group of friends, near and far, cheered me on. They would not let me quit. So onward I went. But let me tell you- it was HARD. Some days I would get tons of likes. Other days the likes were low and it was hard not to take it personally. When you post a photo of yourself it is vulnerable. So if you are one of those who like to make fun of selfies and think it is some narcissistic approach to life then you might want to try posting a few yourself. Do you feel full of yourself when you do it? Because I sure didn't. It actually made me feel less of myself on certain days. I became pretty self conscious and I usually consider myself someone who has a healthy self esteem. So I encourage you to stop your judging of selfies. When you see a photo of someone, please like it. They need you to like it. They need a touch from someone, even if it is as distant as a little heart popping up on their screen. It is hard to remember that it is a true, genuine person behind the hard, impersonal screen. They have feelings and they need your love.
So what I actually learned is not what I thought I would learn but it was a good lesson and I am thankful for the chance to grow and learn. Now on to the really FUN part! I want to give back to all of you that cheered me on in this journey. I am giving you the chance to post a photo of yourself in your favorite challenge of mine from the last 30 days. First place will win a mini session with me valued at $250. Second place will receive a $50 gift card to Nordstrom and third place a $25 gift card to Nordstrom. All you need to do is post your photo on your instagram account and tag Trone Photography. I will have someone on the outside judging so there will not be any biased opinions from me. The giveaway ends Sunday evening at midnight.
I can't wait to now like, no not like, LOVE all of your beautiful selves. Here's to challenges and learning to love ourselves just the way we are, selfies and all.
